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A t-shirt or something with a little more oomph.
So, Christmas is coming up (duh, right?) and I'm having trouble deciding what to give my boyfriend.
He doesn't like me spending a lot of money on him and usually I just make him something cute like a mix CD with some of our favorite songs or for his birthday last year I wrote him a bunch of songs.
But, we've been together for 3 years and I was thinking of maybe getting/making him something a little more.. risque so to speak. I'm a pretty sexual person, moreso than he is, but I get nervous when it comes to really expressing it. I've thought about finding a sexy game or using my body to make a sort of maze (with directions and arrows pointing at what to do). Or just making him a little booklet of coupons for him to pick what he wants to try in bed. My back up plan is a Johnny Cash t-shirt I found.
The problem lies in the fact that: one, I don't know what to get/make. And two, I don't want to end up feeling stupid if I do take a risk and do something a little more erotic.
Any help is appreciated, I suck at gift giving. :)
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If you're looking to do something sexual, I'd go with the coupon book. You could make one and find ideas to fill it with via Google or you can buy one. There's tons of online stores that you can buy them from or if you have a Borders book store around you, I've seen them selling those in the sex section. I promise you won't feel stupid if you get him anything sexual, guys love sex and I haven't met a guy yet who wouldn't love his girlfriend being so forward when it comes to sex. Also, if you can find the time and a place, maybe you could plan a cozy night in front of a fire or make him his favorite dinner and then follow that with sexual stuff. Guys like romance too, and he will love any gift from you whether it be handmade, storebought, or simply time you set aside especially for him :) Best of luck, Jess.
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