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What does he mean?
Ok so it takes A LOT for me to fall for a guy, so when I do it always means a lot to me.
My ex boyfriend broke up with me 2 months ago, I was so heartbroken, and still am a little. We'd been arguing for a few weeks (pretty constant) and I told him it was putting a strain on our relationship and we should re-consider our relationship with eachother. I told him I loved him, he meant everything to me, etc which is why I think we should do that.
Any way he totally flipped and said of course he wanted to stay together and I said we'll just think about what is best for us. The next day he broke up with me. Since then we have spoke, I mean I told him that I wanted to give our relationship a second chance but he doesn't seem to want to. Although he has said "there is nothing more that I'd want than to be with you again, I just can't go through that again" He text me 2 weeks ago saying he still loves me and he misses me, but he still doesn't know what to do.
Recently when we spoke (it's always him texting first) he said "well maybe in the future we will get back together" why won't he just be with me now if what he is saying is true?
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I really don't see how you can say that he broke up with you. You told him you wanted to break up because you had been arguing, even though he was willing to try and work things out. Sounds like you did the breaking up to me... maybe not officially, but in spirit.
That sort of attitude towards hardships would certainly damage my trust! When you're in a relationship with someone, you don't want to be with a person who will bolt when there's trouble. Relationships are about sticking together through the tough times.
He needs to see proof that you're willing to try. Show him that you're not so easily put off, and you may have another chance with him.
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