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Mom deleted my facebook! My BF is a bad kisser and I am BORED!
Ok this stinks so bad!!! I am grounded because my Mom got mad at me for making a facebook account. She found out and then deleted it. I am so upset because all of my friends have one, and facebook is really fun too. My boyfriend has one and says really nice things about me on facebook and now I cant even have a facebook to say thanks. My boyfriend doesnt have a cell phone anymore because he dropped it in the toilet and his Mom wont pay for a new one and he doesnt have enough money for one either. I am really upset because my MOm will not stop talking about the facebook thing to my Aunt and Grandmom. I dont live with my Dad so my Aunt and My Grandmom are the only people she likes to talk to. I want to hang out with my friends but I cant becuase I am grounded. I am so bored with nothing elese to do. SO to top everything off my boyfriend is a really bad kisser!!! This sucks so bad. Also my MOm is super over pretective so I never get to do the things that all of my friends do. I hate this. Also, my Mom has a really weird lock on the computer to everthing fun and cool. She locked my television channels of all the shows I normally watch. My cell phone has locks on it also so I cannot call or text anyone but my Mom, my Aunt, and my Grandmom. Please give some good advice to me I am in desperate need of help thankyou for your time.
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OK.. show your mom thiers nothing bad to face book i have one my mom gets on mines my little sisters have one talk to her about it i belive its good place to be sociable !
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well first of all.. do you even understand why your mom does it?? it could be so many things. it could be that she loves you way too much and doesn't want to let you grow up and be independent. she might feel like you wouldn't need her when youre older. it might be that she doesn't want you to get influenced by your friends to do bad things. it could be that she is angry and stressed and needs to take it out on you. whatever the case may be, you need to find out WHY she's doing this. Talk to her about it. one day sit her down and ask her why is she overprotective and why she has locks on everything and why you can't have a facebook. I know this will probably be hard because I come from a very protective family. I've been there and done that. my mom wouldn't let me walk to school when i was younger, when i lived less than a block away. i know how you feel. but you've got to understand, she's not doing it because she wants to punish you. its because she loves you soo much and either wants you to learn from mistakes, or by protecting you.
let me ask you this. wouldn't you rather have a loving, somewhat overprotective mom and possibly stay away from bad influences.. than to have a mom who wouldn't give a damn, and say you got into trouble and she wouldn't help you out?? i'd rather have overprotective mom than a mom who doesn't give a damn about me.
so yes, talk to your mom. ask her what her purpose is for her reasons. if she gets irritated at you for asking so many questions, just politely say "I just don't understand why you are doing this. I need to know what's the point. I dont want to argue. I want to talk this through in a mature manner" Then if she does give you reasons, explain to her that you're growing up and will be independent. but remind her that you WILL need her when you grow up. ask her for some freedom. I'm not sure how old you are.. but if you're 16 and older, its time to have more independence and freedom. if you're younger than 16, i'd give it some more time. she only wants what's best for you. I doubt she would ever do anything to purposely harm you. let her know that you want to grow up having experiences. how are you supposed to be successful in life if you don't have experience??
as for your boyfriend kissing.. you can just be brave and risk being a little rude and tell him straight up that he needs to work on kissing techinques. *dont tell him he's a bad kisser because he will get offended by that* give him some tips on how to get better. like tilt his head more. or pucker his lips more. or keeps his lips closed more. or suck your bottom lip more.
good luck!
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