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Feelings for a guy, not sure if he returns them.
Okay so I like this guy Mike. And I've liked him since the beginning of the semester. We used to text and flirt a lot but then we kind of lost touch. But recently we started hanging out again, and now I cannot tell if he returns my feelings.
I also have another friend, Kevin, and were really close friends. I've known him since 8th grade. He's like my big brother. Well recently, he became really good friends with Mike, like best friends. And now they hang out all the time, with and without me.
Well, Kevin has been helping me out and apparently Mike has been asking about me to him. He asked him if Kevin and I had a thing and it was explained that no way. were like brother and sister. Then Mike went on to say that he thinks I'm really really pretty, kind of funny, but I can get an attitude sometimes, and he wishes I was in better shape. Which is confusing because he basically contradicted himself. But I asked Kevin if he likes me, and he said yes. Then last night, he brought me up again and was asking if I felt the same way about him now as I did at the beginning of the semester (he knew I liked him at the beginning) because he didnt want it to be awkward if I didn't feel the same way. And I asked Kevin again if he liked me, and he said he didn't know whether he did or not. So I have no idea what that means either.
But also, he will invite Kevin to hang out with him, knowing that I have nothing to do and not invite me. (Kevin tells me, and usually invites me later). Mike is also horrible at texting now (really slow at replying or not at all). We still dont really text a lot, but he always touches my leg or my arm and smiles at me. And he also teases me sometimes. And he still has our texts from like 2 months ago, and he remembers random facts about me or my life that I told him months ago.
He is so contradicting, and sending completely mixed signals. I'm confused. What should I do? Do you think he likes me? Or am I making this up in my mind?
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
He might be making up his mind, but it's more likely that he is just not that into you, and doesn't want to damage his friendship with Kevin by saying it so bluntly. He might enjoy flirting with you, but for whatever reason, he doesn't seem interesting in taking it any further.
Try to move on. It doesn't seem like anything is going to come of this.
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