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Did he make her up just to make me jealous?
sooo.. i'm just gonna skip over the whole dilemma and get straight to the point. short story- me and this one guy dated for a year and he broke up with me, dated another girl, then they broke up and he wanted to get back together with me. but i was in a relationship with a different guy. he tried to persuade me to take him back. i was stuck in between these 2 guys for a good month. drama drama drama blah blah blah.. then.. i find out my ex is talking to this one chick and lives half way across the country from us. he says they've been talking for 2 years and this spring break she is coming over to visit him. i added her on facebook and next thing i know, i get a text from my ex saying "why did you add Miley" and i'm like because i want to. she accepts and of course being the creeper i am, i check out her pics. every single profile pic is her turned around, or her face covered up, or not very clear.. her friend list isn't on her page, so i cant see how many friends she has. she only has about 3 friends who write on her wall.. i clicked on them and theirs was set to private. their profile pics were only like 8 of them. i checked out "mileys" wall posts and someone said- you need to get a cell phone!" so that rung a bell.. how would my ex know that i added her on fb, if she doesnt have a cell?? oh and get this.. all of "miley's" pics look freakishly like Selena Gomez.. and "miley's" friend's last name is Truscott. MILEY...TRUSCOTT...HANNAH MONTANA?? is that a coincidence or just a weird connection??
my question here is.. do you believe she's fake and that he made her up just to make me jealous? or do you think i'm just insane? be honest. is there any way to find out for sure? i was thinking about asking a friend of mine if he can add her and talk to her and get info out of her. maybe ask him to ask her to send a pic of her?
thank you!
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Ir certainly looks like she is made up doesn't it?
Of course your ex would know if you added her, because she would show up as friends you share... but still, and some people do keep things private on Facebook. However, all those issues all together make it look pretty damn likely that someone, your ex or a friend of his, made up a fake profile.
The bigger question though, is does it really matter?
If you don't want to get back with him, it shouldn't matter if he being a deceitful little coward or not. If you don't want to get back with him, then he is only making the fake profile to get your attention and create drama. The very best thing you can do is ignore it.
You've got no good reason to demand a photo and there is no way to make 'sure' she's real. You'll probably never know for sure.
If you don't want this guy, it doesn't matter.
If you do want this guy, well, if I were you a guy who lied and made up a fake girlfriend, that would make me want him a whole lot less.
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