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Will it work
Im 19 in college and i met this 24 year old guy...he is really nice and we are getting to know eachother on a friend level but i am interested in more but would like some advice to if you guys think the age difference is a problem and if you have ever dated older did it work out?
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I was in the same situation about 4 years ago. I was 19 and this guy was 24! We saw each other for 7 months nothing exclusive! The problem I found was he was a bit immature...it really depends on the guy who you are seeing. Also another factor to consider is what direction is the 24 year old going. You are only 19 and you're in college...he might be going into a different direction or looking for something. Maybe he doesn't know what he wants and maybe you do. It shouldn't discourage you from flirting with him but it makes you think about it.
Unfortunately it did not work out between us. We are just friends now! Good luck!
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Personally I prefer older guys. They prove to be much more level headed and on track than boys our age (I'm 20). However. use your best judgment. Some men choose to date younger women simply because they can coerce them to play by their rules. Although this may be the case for few men it is NOT a generalization for all older men. I think you should definitely give it a try. Don't live the rest of your life wondering.
Love Always
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No i don't think the age difference is a problem
both of you are legal it's not like your minors your age is just a number nothing more i did date a
older boy when i was in high school but truthfully it didn't work out between us we didn't date very long & we stopped talking to one another our relationship wasn't serious if your interested in
more then i think you should go for it..it's worth a
shot there's no harm in giving him a chance & getting to know him better do whatever will make you
happy because in the end the main thing that truely
counts is that your happy & if your not then it's
probably not worth it :)
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