Masturbation is a safe way to relieve sexual tension when you have no other outlet for it. It is best to find a safe comfortable place like your bedroom or the bathroom, where you can lock the door and not be disturbed or intruded on.
Most religions, including the Catholic religion, do not condemn masturbation. The condemnation of masturbation comes from individual prejudices even though these same people masturbate each other during foreplay they refuse to approve of self-masturbation. This is wrong.
As I am probably old enough to be your grandparent I will offer this advice. Any sexual activity for or between consenting adults that does not hurt anyone is acceptable. Just because what you are doing is not something I would not do or I might not like does not make it unacceptable.
The only thing about masturbation, or anything else for that matter, is if you do it to the exclusion of everything else. Then it is an obsession. Obsessions can have a very harmful impact upon your everyday life and if this is happening then you need to seek help for an Excessive Compulsive Disorder. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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