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mind clearing
okay so i've liked this guy brian for the longest time. we've hooked up on multiple occasions and had sleepovers, but he doesn't want a girlfriend. he he's had 2 since spring of 2009 and now he's just enjoying life..which means he's not only hooking up with me. so i've decided that it's great for him, but sucks for me and i can't get him out of my head. it's really bad, i couldn't fall asleep for the longest time last night because of it. so does anyone have "cleansing" ideas? i've deleted his number from my phone for the time being. just until i figured things out and cleared my head. any other ideas? thanks!
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hang out with your girlies :) trust me it fixes everything. your best friends know how to fix everything. whenever i'm in deep trouble, i call up my bff and we chill and she just takes my mind off things and we have a great time. laughter is the best medicine. so just hang out with your bff's and laugh a lot and just dont care. oh and also listen to music. search on youtube about songs about moving on and forgetting the past. i know a few so here they are
walk away- christina aguilera
fighter- christina aguilera
goodbye- christina debarge
Stronger than ever- christina aguilera
power- kanye west
i'm sure there's more i know, but those are the ones off the top of my head.
i've dealt with guys like him.. the best thing to do is to REALIZE that he's a jackass. be GLAD that you're done with him. get MAD that he did this to you and treated you this way (like any other girl) just get pissed and shove it all in his face and be like- i dont care what you think, this is my life and i'm not gonna put up with this sh*t. you're a jerk and i'm done with you. bye.
you just gotta have that tough attitude like "i dont need you. get out of my way!"
i used to be this really shy girl but then i realized that if i'm always shy and always really nice to everybody.. people can take advantage of me. which is what guys did. finally i realized that sometimes you have to be a b*tch. not always though.. but when it comes to people treating you poorly, you have to stand up for yourself and say "enough is enough. i'm standing up for myself. i dont need this" and just turn around and walk away with pride.
good for you for wanting to move on. he's not worth your time. trust me. good luck :)
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