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Does he like me or is he just being nice?


Question Posted Sunday November 21 2010, 7:11 pm

Ok so this guy is in a band a well known band like semi famous, I talk to him now and again via email/ facebook but anyway yeah I went to their show and I said "Hi I'm the girl that annoys you with all the emails" he looked confused until I said my name then he grinned and said "Oh! Right I like your song, and I'm not saying you're annoying I just know who you are."

We talked for a while but then he had to get back to the other fans, then after the show I asked for a hug he put his arms out and made me go to him then he started stroking my hair saying "shhh it's alright now" I had to go after that though because I was gonna miss my bus.

Then I went to their gig in a different city I stuck around after the show and at first he didn't see me because he was taking pictures and signing things, he wasn't really talking to the girls or looking at them though, and when he saw me he smiled and said "Hi!" keeping eye contact "you remember me then?" "yeah of course was this show as good as the other one?" "it was better, I've got to go catch the coach back, but can I have a hug?" "yeah" he hugged me then said "bye" still smiling still keeping eye contact.

Also recently we've been talking about a movie that we both like and my new song (which is written about him) and now he's letting me add him on skype which I was shocked about because normally musicans that are quite popular keep private.

My friends seem to think he likes me, I'm not sure though, there's an age gap of like 4 and a half years, so idk if he just see's me as a little kid.

But judging by the infomation I've put here... does he like me??


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gr8fruit answered Monday November 22 2010, 9:52 am:
Hey,
Theres no for sure way to tell if he does by the info you put here, but I think he does like you. It sounds like he a friendly guy. I don't think musicians keep to themselves, they have to have a life as well. I think when he allowed you to access his skype, he wanted a part of you in his life. Him making the eye contact is a sign that he is confident and that he was a bit attracted to you. I think he may like you. The only way to know for sure is to ask him if he would like to go for a drink sometime with you and see how he responds. He must be fairly busy with his band though, so don't expect him to say yes right away.

He may have been being nice because it is part of him/his job and another sign that he may really like you, is when he stroked your hair. Not many guys will just do this. Maybe its natural for him or he felt a connection, I don't know. Just tell him you think he is a great guy, that you would like to get together, then see where it goes from there. I'm sure he will say something such as "I will give it a good thought" or "Yes". If he smiles, you know he is thinking positive about you <3

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