You may or may not have had your first period, that does not mean you have not started down the road of puberty. If you and your mother have not had the "girl, Girl talk" it is time to tell mom that you think you are starting to go through puberty.
The Internet is a very good resource to get straight answers to questions you may have as to what is happening and what you may be feeling. I could supply a link to female masturbation but in this instance I would it is better if you use a search engine to search for "female masturbation". Another question to search for is "am I ready for sex". I have the link to this one as well as this is a question we get asked quite a bit. Search for these questions and any other questions you might have. You will get straight answers, answers you can discuss with your mother should you want too; hopefully you will.
Remember mom & dad were once 13 and have gone through just what you are going through and will go through. They can make things a lot easier for you if you can have frank discussions with them. [ adviceman49's advice column | Ask adviceman49 A Question ]
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