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My ex still wants to be with me :/
Okay, so I have been in the best relationship I've ever been with, with my boy friend Lou. We have been dating for 11 months now, and I love him very much. Now my ex's older sister told me today that when he gets into high school ( he's an 8th grader, im 9th) he's going to try to get me back. x.x Now, his sister told him to move on, because I'm in a relationship, he won't listen. Now, I dated him last year when he was in 7th and when I was in 8th, he was a good boyfriend in the beginning, he was my first kiss. He was very funny, nice and cute. We dated for 6-7 months before I broke up with him for my recent bf now. Well, everything went good until Christmas break. He didn't call, he didn't text me, I called him once, he hanged up. His sister told me, he hates his phone >.> so thats why he never called me, texted me. So, I was depressed, and lonely..and than I met Lou, he was so funny and sweet, one night his after his ex broke up with him..he was very upset and I helped him feel better, my friend started this all for me..by introducing him to me..and when they 3 wayed me on the phone..he said..sense that day when he heard my voice, he said he knew I was the one for him. After awhile, we started to date..after I broke up with my ex of course, it hurt me really bad to break up with him..but the next day he had someone else..so I said, oh well he will be ok. Than after a situation a rised when ppl were trying to break my bf and I up..he tried to be my bf again..and I turned him down..than hurt him again:/ I don't want to HURT him anymore. I just want him to find someone better than me, so he can be happy.His girl friend now doesn't kiss, hug or tell him she loves him..he needs to find someone else..but what I want to know is..what will I do next year? Avoid him? Tell him were just friends? Should I tell my bf about this?
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Did you tell him that you don't want to hurt him anymore? and that he deserves someone much better, even if he doesn't know it now.. he will in time..? You have to make sure he understands this. Only then will he be able to move on. Don't ignore your ex, just try not to have long conversations with him. If you avoid him, it will only make him feel worse. Let your ex know you can still be friends for a long time and tell him you will still give him the occasional hug.
I wouldn't tell your boyfriend about this, unless he brings it up. If he does, let him know that this guy is just an ex who has a crush on you, but you aren't making anything of it. If your boyfriend loves you, he should trust your word and believe you. For now, stay friends with your ex and continue to let him know he will find someone better. In time he will <3
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