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I like a guy and im almost positive he doesnt like me.
Okay so I'm a sophomore and this summer i had a date with an older guy that i had met earlier that year. I know we only had one date but I felt a connection.
So after school started we still texted now and then but it wasn't the same as before our date. And after a while he told me he missed me... That's when i got confused. I thought that if this guy really missed me he would ask me to go out again so i asked him why he hadn't. He said that he was to old and that it would be wrong to see each other again but I just didn't believe that he could be saying he didn't want to see me again.
Since I found that he didn't want to see me again I quit texting him but couldn't stop thinking about him. Now we haven't texted for a while and there's this party going on and he is invited... I'm not positive if he's coming but what if he does? I'm just starting to realize that he isn't worth my time(even though I'm not completely over him) and there are a lot of guys out there. But now I can't stop thinking about the fact that if I see him again and how i felt/feel about him.. What if I start to like him a lot again and he plays me like he did last time? I don't want to go through that again but I am not positive that I will be able to prevent myself from falling for him all over.
And if I do go and he is there I don't want to find out that he is happy and could be at peace with himself for just dropping me like that..
What am I supposed to do or think... I'm so confused? I want him and I don't want him is this normal?
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This is normal to feel that way!
I can't tell you whether or not he isn't going on another date with you because he's older or because he may not feel the same way. The only one who would know that is him and him alone. I was seeing a guy not exclusively for about 7 months and he was playing me. Recently he was talking about hanging out with me and missing me and he did it once again he played me. I realize he isn't right for me and I'm only attracted to him because of his looks. I know that seems low but I'm just being honest. Something that helps me with getting over a guy is looking at why they aren't what I want in a guy. For example the guy I was dating for 7 months has too much baggage, not support, doesn't have a job, and plays the "victim" card all the time. That's not what or need no matter how good looking he is.
You need to worry about you and what you NEED. You may WANT him but you don't NEED him. If you feel that you may be uncomfortable at this party then don't go because it maybe a tough situation. On the other hand you shouldn't let him control where you go, so if you want to go have fun at the party then go ahead. If you see him there be casual say "hi. how are you?" And that's it. You don't need to talk to him the whole night! Don't let him ruin your fun go have fun with your other friends and don't show him it bothers you! Good luck and have fun at the party!
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