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Am I ready for sex?
I'm ___ age and I'm thinking about having sex for the first time with my (boyfriend, girlfriend, random person I just met). I think I'm ready but I'm not sure. What should I do?
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I'm gonna play devil's advocate and say that sex is as big a deal as you make it. It can either be not a big deal or it could be the hugest deal. The important thing is to remember that whatever you do, it's the right decision for you.
There's no such thing as too young (within reason, you probably shouldn't have sex before puberty), and I disagree with people that say things like "losing your virginity is the most important decision in the world and if you wonder if you're ready or not, you're not ready". That's sorta a bad attitude in my opinion, because it makes sex into something negative, and it antagonizes you for not being completely sure.
People will almost never be COMPLETELY sure about anything, the important thing is to do whatever feels right for you.
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