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Declining Facebook invite
What do I say to my aunt who's constantly bothering her to ADD HER ON FACEBOOK and to ACCEPT HER INVITE?
I'm not one of those girls who accepts anyone and has like 10000 friends. I have 300 of my closets friends and frankly, she a mean lady who's always picking on me and I cna't get away because she comes over sometimes and she's coming over tomorrow and she'll be bugging me about it. I obviously don't want to say, "because I don't like you and you're a bitch," well i do but no what what family is family.
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If you were to tell her no, it might cause family issues. Your parents could get involved, and it would just blow up.
If I'm not mistaken, you can set different levels of activity for each Facebook friend. Add her as a friend, but don't allow her to do anything. No posting on your wall, no viewing your wall, etc. If she asks why, tell her you do it for safety reasons and that all your friends have the same restrictions.
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In this case talk to your mother or father whomever is directly related to her. Tell them that you dislike this aunt as all she has ever done is pick on you if that's the truth.
Tell them that she won't leave you alone on Facebook and you do not wish her to have access to your friends list or profile. That is your right. It's for school friends.
If she truly wants to be your friend tell her to apply all that desire to real-life. Should you be rude to an adult? No, well er, sometimes.
If an adult constantly picks on you and won't leave you alone you have a right no matter what happens afterward to stand up for yourself. Tell her how you truly feel.
I think your parents should let you speak to her or write a Facebook e-mail message of which they approve and see first that A)This profile is for school friends and private conversations between them and B)If you want to be my friend and have a meaningful friendship please do so in person because we feel strongly that you pick on me without reason.
You can do that or just do what everyone else does by ignoring her and denying the request until she gets it to go away or go through Facebook's settings for your account and add this aunt to people you want to block and they'll never be able to contact you again or read your profile. I think she will get the message.
But the fact that she wants desperately to be added means something. She doesn't HATE you. Perhaps her picking on you is her way of thinking it's helpful or normal. Either way talking to her may get you farther than you think.
You can also use Facebook settings to approve a friend but give them limited access to your profile with only picture, name, interests and friends and other stuff blacked out to them. It's your Facebook so you alone should decide who is or isn't to see it.
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