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i can't believe this happened
Im 17 and my ex boyfriend is 22 a couple of weeks ago i broke up with him and things got out of control and he ended up rapping me. Anyways i don't want to report it because i don't want to make a big fuss about it. Well i might be pregnant and eventhough i don't want to get an abortion i know im not going to have any help with the baby. I really don't want to give up the baby either.... What should i do
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Maybe you don't want to make a big deal out of him raping you but what about the next women he rapes. He raped you and he will rape again if this is how he handles domestic problems. Point of fact rape is rape even if you were married to him. It is your body and when you say no it means STOP. He has no right to sexually assault you or anyone else regardless of the relationship he may have had with you or anyone else.
You may be thinking; well its no big deal its not like he was a total stranger, we've had plenty of sex in the past. Doesn't matter and trust me on this; this rape will come back to haunt you later in life whether you are pregnant or not. If you are pregnant and keep the baby the baby will be a constant reminder of the rape.
I would like you to call an organization called RAINN; This stands for, Rape, Incest, Abuse National Network. There number is 1-800-656-hope. The call takers are trained to answer your questions and to help you find trained counselors who will help you find people in your town to council you and help you through this.
Just as important as talking to these people from RAINN is, is reporting the Rape to the Police and letting them handle it. If you don't want to do it for yourself then do it for the next women he rapes as she may not be as lucky as you and be hurt her or worse even killed if he loses total control of himself. So report him as to prevent him from raping again.
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If you are prenagant you can still make him pay child support.please seen christen council so you will have a clear mind to live your life and be happy.have the baby
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you really should report him... he is a bad guy for doing this to you and you should't just let him get away with this.. its like letting a guy get away with robbing a bank... he needs to be punished and even though it may not seem like a big deal to you, it really is a big deal.
what you do with the baby is your decision. but just keep in mind that it is a big responsibility and you're only 17. i'm 18 and it is going to be unbelievably hard to have a baby and at the same time finish school AND get back on track..
good luck.
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