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I want to know if i am at risk for pregnancy...
My boyfriend had cam on my stomach. We waited probably up to an hour, maybe less? Than we had sex. He also had fingered me. I usually get my period between the 8th and the 12th. It is now the 11th and it hasn't came yet. I am getting very worried, and have been for about 2 days. Could the stress be holding off my period or do you think that i could be pregnant?
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If you mean that you've been having sex and practicing the withdrawl method, that is no condom and no birth control pill, patch or ring, and relying only on your boyfriend to not ejaculate-- then it's possible you're pregnant.
If you're telling me that your boyfriend first ejaculated on you and then afterward you had sex-- did you use a condom? Are you on the pill or something else? Did you let him ejaculate inside you?
See, men generate sperm pretty fast. They generally don't become ready to have sex again until they've got more sperm to deposit. Maybe they won't have that much, but there will be some. And some is all it takes.
Being fingered or anything else associated with female pleasure (like recieving oral) are aspects of good sex, but bear no impact on pregnancy. All that matters is if the man had vaginal sex with you. Once that occurs, if you are not protected, you can become pregnant.
Stress can affect a normal period, however, you have good cause to suspect pregnancy. Wait until the 13th and then take a test. I would locate the nearest planned parenthood and call them. They're not exclusively abortion providers, they offer medical help, advice about adoption, pre-natal care and parenting.
And if you're not pregnant, they can review some birth control options for you. Without contraception, the average sexually active female has a 60% chance of becoming pregnant within a year. That means your chances are higher of getting pregnant than not getting pregnant.
If you are on the pill, with regular use, your odds are closer to 1-3%. Or if you use it perfectly, 0.1%.
There is nothing wrong with having sex in a loving relationship so long as you're ready and you're being responsible. And consider it this way: if you both really love each other, you won't put each other at such high risk of becoming a parent before you're ready.
I'll tell you what I told a friend of mine a long time ago: Do you want your parents finding out you're on the pill? Or would you rather tell them you're prengnant? Because one conversation is way worse than the other, isn't it?
Good luck, and I mean that.
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