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stalked by creepy married person


Question Posted Tuesday October 19 2010, 10:43 am


HI,and thank you for your answer.yes,I am over 18.I have notified the authorities,and she is on watch.She began a teaching job recently,and,when we were still speaking,she would tell me how excited she was to be around all the teenagers,and would read the same books as they did,and,well,I see the writing on the wall.I have discovered that,even though she presented herself to me as loyal to her husband,(she pulled that tactic when she realized I would not have sex with her),she is a swinger,is probably prostituting,and watching her father-in-law grope her in public in front of me,a friend of mine,her husband,and some other people,and her giggling at that,was just beyond gross.I can't control her and I am powerless over her,but,while I miss the friendship,I don't want to see her again.Besides,how could she have ever have really been my friend if she wasn't honest? I was always doing things for her,helping her with school,showing her the in's and out's of real estate,giving her information I found on the internet about pregnancy when she was pregnant,(she didn't know anything).Now,I think she was having sex with a lot of different people while she was pregnant.Talk about out of control.She showed me her myspace page once,there were 349 'friends',half of which were pornstars!! She has also become a compulsive gambler.Yes,I am staying away.She is not safe,and couldn't be there for anyone.I feel sorry for the kid,though.Thank you again.Sorry for the long letter,I have had this bottled up for a long time


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adviceman49 answered Tuesday October 19 2010, 2:14 pm:
I'm not so sure this women should be around children of any age. If the police are watching her I'm sure they will decide when and if she needs to be removed from the school. I don't feel it would be in your best interest to say anything to the school authorities.

I am also left wondering about the state of her mental health. From what you have written here there are some classic symptoms that should be checked out. Not only by a psychiatrist but a neurosurgeon as well. From what you have written she has had a complete personality change; this is not a normal event for anyone. That is why I am suggesting someone try and convince her to see the doctors I have suggested. If you are still speaking to her husband you might say something to him if only to benefit the child.

No problem with the long letter, this is what we are here for. Feel free to write again if you need too.

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