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Keeping me from sex..
20 female.
I have one thing I'm self conscious about and I don't know what to do. Do any of you girls have a longer labia? I do, I mean when I'm standing up you can see it kind of hang down which I hate. I think I'm more self-conscious now because I was hooking up with this guy once and he made a comment like "Ohhh extra long." I was like oh great, embarrassing. I know a guy shouldn't care, but I care. I feel like this is stopping me from sex now. Can you girls please help me with this one? Or even guys, if you've dealt with a girl whose had this.
Thank you so much.
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I'm quite a bit older than you and maybe my thoughts might not be what you looking for; though I will offer them anyway as I was once your age.
Just what is normal? If you ask a guy he will tell you a guy with a big long, thick penis is normal. If you look at medical evidence the average vagina can only accommodate about 6", so is that what the normal length of a penis should be.
The nice thing about the human body is we are all different. So you have a longer labia; big deal. All that means is there is that much more to suck an nibble on during oral sex. Unless the longer labia causes you pain or other problems during sex I wouldn't worry about it. If some boy should say something about it in a derogatory way he is not only a fool but sexually inexperienced.
Enjoy what you have, you have been blessed with a very special sex organ. as I said if you are not having any pain or other problem during sex caused by your labia just relax and let your guy enjoy you.
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Nope. They don't care. I've been married 12 years, had two kids. My vagina has definitely changed over the years. Hubby COULDN'T CARE LESS! And we even talked about it once because I also noticed my labia looking a bit... stretched, and I was feeling self concious about it. He was like "Honey, dudes do NOT care! We're just happy when we can even get close to one. We're not picky about what it looks like" I think this is the same kind of thing as when girls worry about their odor "down there"... a lot of girls worry about the smell and they don't like the smell, but it is a GOOD smell to men. It is the smell of a woman, so its actually not a turn off. Same thing with your labia. It is part of YOU, a woman, and any man who gets close enough to see it is just going to be glad he got there, trust me!
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