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breaking my heart.
my boyfriend and his family are moving back to england at the end of the year weve been going out for 3 years now and i dont know what im going to do im 18 and a part of me is saying i should stay home another is telling me go with him. this feeling of him leaving is tearing us apart hes my bestfriend and my boyfriend and i really think we were going to have a life together. i was going to just go to a two year colluge for nursing so i dont really dont care where i go i want to be with him so bad and he literally can not stay because of finacial reasons. but if anyone has advice on what i should do or if i should go and if i do then explain how to start planning my future.
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How close are you two? Do you think he also has thought about having a future with you? I think you should discuss with him where he sees your relationship going if you two are really that serious and close. If you don't think he'd feel comfortable talking about spending a life with you then I don't think you should move to England and change your life to fit his future. However if he is open to talking about your relationship and the options there and you don't care where you go anyways I would definitely move there with him. England has lots of great schools and its a new culture that you would get to experience with your boyfriend! Plus if you've been dating for three years it would be a great way to move your relationship on to a new level and continue it without having to possibly break up because of long distance. I think it really depends on what he is thinking because as much as you care about him and love him, there is no point moving there unless he is ready for you to go with him and he loves you enough and you two are in that mature stage to talk about spending your lives together. Hope I helped! Good luck! :/ x
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