Question Posted Thursday October 14 2010, 10:52 am
I moved out at the age of eighteen. i stay with my boyfriend and his family. Everything is great except school is really expensive and i can't seem to get any loans. The issue is i could go to school for free if i move back in with my parents, but i do not want that. I was so depressed there. But its really stressin me on how long its taking to get back into school. im feeling as if i wont ever get back in. So what do i do, choose love and eventually i can have my career or choose career and be miserable back at home and worry about love later?
nikitathecheetah answered Thursday October 14 2010, 12:28 pm: hi so i am in a similar situation. i am i also in college. I am a sophomore. im taking only 3 classes at the community college i attend. i understand where your coming from because i don't have many friends to hang out with. I go to school and come home and study or do homework. I've talked to some people in my class and a lot of them say the same thing. And alot of kids make time to have fun and study, which is hard for me, but they party so that's why im not friends with a lot of people at school, my parents wouldn't allow me to do that stuff. but anyways you need to talk to your parents as well as your boyfriend. Make a list of things you need to do. Talk to your parents and tell them that your feeling depressed. And tell them that your not able to pay for school and you would like some help. You need to make school your first priority. I haven't been and im not doing too well. But im learning that you need to become something before you find someone. I know it's hard, i mean im not even allowed to date. but remember everything has it's place, and everything will happen at the right time. I hope i helped. Nikita <3 [ nikitathecheetah's advice column | Ask nikitathecheetah A Question ]
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