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FORGIVENESS...
Ok well me and my boyfriend had unprotected sex(stupid) and i unknowingly gave him chlamydia as soon as i found out i had it i told him and he was really understanding. Anyways i took the antibiotics and was cured he had not yet went to the doctor and we had an argument and he told me if u were here right now we would have some rough sex and i stupidly said I wouldnt have sex with you because you have chlamydia and i dont it was supposed to be a tupid joke but he thinks i was scorning him and now he is really upset...how d i get him to forgive me...byt the way we aare in a long distance relationaship...HELP ME PLEASE>
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Hey there,
That is a rough thing to go through in a relationship. I am glad he was understanding about the whole thing, since you didn't know then. What you said about not having sex with him because he has chlamydia... really does come off as a burn towards him. He had sex with you even though you had chlamydia, and he forgave you even under the curcumstances. I think anyone would be upset after hearing what you said.
I believe the best thing you can do now, is talk to him. And if possible, in person. Being in person allows a person to see your true feelings. Explain to him that you didn't mean what you said, that you weren't thinking straight, and that you are really sorry. He won't forgive you the first few times you say these things, but keep trying every few days when you talk to him, be yourself, and show him that you are being honest.
If you cannot see him in person, call him. He may not pick up at first either, but he will eventually. Leave him a voicemail letting him know you are sorry and you hope he will talk to you, for you would like to talk to him. Just keep trying and in time, you will talk one on one and you both will feel better about what happened. Forgiveness isn't something you can make a person do, you can only guide them to it <3
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