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My parents don't approve of my guy friend
F/13
He's a M/11
Ok so there's this boy that I net at the mall and I found out that he is in my gym class at school. Im in 8th grade and he's in 6th grade but I don't really care about age difference with friendships. But he's reallynice and funny so I like having him ass a friend but he always wants to video chat with me but whenever e wants to m parents have the laptop and I'm stuck ith the tiny one with out a webcam. So I was chatting with him k facebook and he asked to oovoo and he didn't believe that I couldnt and thought I was making excuses so I sent him a pic of the mini laptop and i guess some of my leg was in the picture and he said "wow you can almost see ur pussy." and I laffed bc I know he was jk bc he knows I have a boyfriend and he's best friends with him so when j had to go I forgot to close off the chat and my mom was on my facebook and sawthat he said that and now niether of my parents want me to talk to him. But I want to. What should I do. And sorry this is long.
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You have to admit what he said was pretty gross with or without your parents reading it. Then again, that's pre-teen boys for you.
You NEED to tell him that what he said was inappropriate, disrespectful and that your parents read it and do not want any further contact between you and him online or off.
You should tell him that his only real chance of remaining a friend is to tell his parents about what he said and how yours responded and have them and him meet your family and put it behind you once he apologizes. I think if they meet him and his family and see he made an embarrassing mistake and has learned how to behave online/off they may back pedal.
You've learned a valuable lesson here. Watch what you say in IM on Facebook or anywhere on the Internet as you never know who could read it, print it out or if parents can read it or others on a machine several people use. He's more at fault than you are but you should have told him right then and there that what he said wasn't appropriate.
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