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I am confused about this Girl
So I am 16 and I like this girl in one of my classes and she is on the swim team. I am on the buys swim team but so I guess we have something to talk about. I approached her and talked to her and everything seemed good.
Then during conversation I brought up this guy whom I hate. This guy does a lot of illegal drugs and is overall not a good person. She told me not to talk about him. It was apparent she did not like him either.
Later I overheard HER say that she had sex with that guy even though she did not want to. Of course I don't know all the circumstances but I was shocked. As a 16 year old virgin who believes sex is for love and marriage, I felt weirdly depressed and disgusted that she had sex with that awful guy. It felt weird to know that she used her body in that way already.
The problem is that I still like her but I cannot stop thinking about the fact that she had sex with that awful guy. What should I do?
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You can't really 'do' anything...it isn't up to you who she does or does not have sex with. Remember, not everyone believes sex is for marriage. Don't worry, you'll get over it over time.
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