|
Love sex, but never given a BJ.
20F.
So for some reason I'm terrified of giving a guy a blow job or even a hand job ..never done it before! But I've had sex ..yeah a little weird. I feel like I've lucked out because I've only had sex with two guys and neither of them have asked me to do that to them before sex. Then I was talking to my guy cousin and he was like you gave him head before you had sex to make him last longer right? Now I'm worried I should be doing this before sex. I just love having sex though and would rather not give a hand job or blow job. Is this normal?
[ ]
Want to answer more questions in the Sexual Health and Reproduction category?
Maybe give some free advice about: General Sex Questions?
a blowjob is not the only way to satisfy your partner there are many other fun sex games im sure he wouldn't mind if you gave head but you're not really forced to do it and they should respect your decision but if you want try it out theres nothing wrong with giving hand jobs too you said you only had sex twice which means you're still new to it and quite frankly a bit shy if you have a partner that you know and are open with maybe it will just come naturally
]
You shouldn't worry about this. I've given head once or twice but I'm not really into it.
Besides, my boyfriend and I have a lot more fun doing other things in bed...and the blow job isn't really needed.
You should only ever do what you're comfortable with, and if there's a guy you really wish to pleasure like that, then you should let him guide you; you won't be embarrassed.
Take it easy :)
]
You don't have to do anything you don't want to do.
You are not abnormal at all. There are just things you haven't tried yet. No need to be terrified though. The right guy will help you with it should you want to try either someday. Just don't feel you have to rush into anything.
As for your cousins comment...he isn't as worldly as he would have you think. Giving oral sex to a guy will NOT make him last longer. If anything just the opposite is true. :)
]
More Questions: |