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The old and the new
So, get ready to read a long story.
so back when I was in ninth grade I met a guy at a concerts, we hit it off and we started dating. We dated for a year, he made me this mix cd once and I still have the songs on my computer. He was such a nice guy! I really loved being with him, after a while though he changed, turned into a pig and a jerk and started doing drugs. Well after a while I couldn't take it anymore, I Was miserable, I broke up with him and a week later got with my best friend. I know I should've taken time to be single, but it just kinda happened. We were just flirting then I was waiting for our friend in his car with him and I just blurted out that I liked him and he just smiled and kissed me and said he liked me too. We started dating a few weeks later. Well We've been together six months next week and I'm so happy with him! He smokes pot sometimes, it bugs me a bit but not as much as it did with my last boyfriend. Besides that I really like him, even love him. I'm a jr. he's a senior. Just the fact that we're bestfriends and boyfriend and girlfriend makes it so amazing!
Well today, I was listening to music and my ex's and I's song came on, I got all teary eyed and I thought of when I was happy with him. It made me question if dumping him was the right thing, I broke his heart, I was miserable but hearing that song I felt so terrible. So now I'm confused on why I feel that way, was it wrong to dump him and date another person so soon? I gave him several chances to get his act together though, but my boyfriend now it so great! I don't want to destroy our friendship if things go sour, but at the same time, I think of the past, if I could just have him back to how he used to be. I feel so guilty. I love my boyfriend now.
Is this just nostalgia?
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yes. Toss that cd. Toss those songs. You dumped him because it didnt feel right. Now you have this amazing guy dont let your past ruin what you already have.
♥Nancy!
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Instead of listening to your ex-boyfriend's old songs, you should listen to Kvelertak instead.
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Oh, and fuck your ex, he sounds like an asshole. Problem solved.
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Me too. It's usually possible to overcome the screaming and get some idea of what they're saying, but Norwegian screaming is simply undecipherable.
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