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#3 lol


Question Posted Thursday September 23 2010, 6:15 pm

yeah i see where your coming from but i kinda feel both ways about it like i feel he does have a right but then again he doesnt he changed his number he wont even talk to anyone that has anything to do with me like he wont even talk to his brother in law and if he really loved me i have no idea he wanted me to run away with him i just couldnt take off and leave my mom behind he said he wanted it to just be me and him so we could start our own family now i stop to think what if i did would he be with me or would he have left me there by myself see they are the things that make me want to just say fuck him and do it all myself but then i know everyone needs a father and a mother and i saw how he was with his nieces and nephew its just alot

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iwantthetruth answered Thursday September 23 2010, 8:09 pm:
Hello.

Well I think that you should try to not think of the past because it will just make you more upset. Also, I think you made the right choice by not abandoning your family. Honestly, you should ask yourself whether a man who tries to get you to leave your family behind is good enough for you. You should aspire to be with someone who brings joy into your life, not someone who wants to be the only person in your life.

It's true to that children benefit from having both a mom and a dad, but in special situations like this there are exceptions. You don't want to bring a child into this world with parents that have an unstable relationship. You don't have to tell your ex about the baby if you don't want to, but personally I think I would.

Take care.

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