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We broke up after almost a year, i need her back.


Question Posted Wednesday September 22 2010, 1:41 pm

me and girlfriend broke up today. September 24, is our one year anniversary..We broke up because when we first got together, whe kissed two guys in the same day and i stayed with her. I love her now and know that she wouldnt have gone anywhere, but she was on a field trip today, and sat next to one of the guys she made out with. I blew up, and today was the day i was quiting smoking. She broke up with me because she is tired of getting yelled at, what can i do..I am male, 19 years old and she is 16

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stefplus7 answered Saturday September 25 2010, 11:07 pm:
what can you do???? Really you have to ask that.. UHHH you are 19 dude she is only 16.... I DONT KNOW but in my world she is a minor YOUR an adult I say find someone your own age and leave the child alone. Let her be she is living her life as a 16 yr old as for YOU grow up find your life and get a job! There are plenty of 18,19 even 20 yr olds you can date. IF she likes you and your still around when she is of age it will happen if it meant to be other wise give her some SPACE!!!

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maxgrey answered Friday September 24 2010, 8:02 pm:
You can't get her back, buddy.
Once it's over, it's over.
It hurts right now, but it'll hurt less and less every day, but you've gotta just accept that she doesn't want to be your girlfriend.

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karenR answered Thursday September 23 2010, 7:37 am:
Most girls aren't going to break up with a guy for yelling at them one time. If she is tired of getting yelled at, you may have an anger issue you need to deal with.

I can understand your being upset but this kissing happened a year ago, if I am reading this right. You have to get over it. She evidently chose you at the time.

You also need to realize that at 19, you are more mature than she is. You may have some idea where your life is going to go. She is 16. She is still making those decisions for herself. Sometimes that means moving on and dating more than person to be sure you are with the right one.

I would advise apologizing & then giving her some space. If it is meant to be she will come back to you. If not, then you need to move on and find someone else. Its painful, but you will be ok.

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