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:( he keeps making fun of me
i am a scorpio girl. And i tend to be very sensitive. This guy in my group of friends at school has been making so much fun of me. I almost cried today :(....last friday afterschool he was being kinda nice but playful like hitting me with my bag, and a chasey type thing...and then he asked me if i'm going to home coming, and i said yeah and he asked with who? and I said with my girls. then today he was just making fun of me up and down...we were eating breakfast and he told me he doesnt like me, my face, my hair, the way i look..and my two friends and he too was laughing becaus it was supposed to be funny....but deep down it hurt me....and then he asked me if I would go to homecoming with him, and then i was like wow, i'm not listening to anything you say...and he was like psych!...and then he tells me i'm fat..but i'm pretty skinny actually so that didn't hurt me at all..i actually took it as a compliment becaue i'm trying to gain weight...and then later on he gives me some of his food and tells me i'm too skinny that i need to eat...and then i told him to stop staring at my body then, and then he said, but he just cant help it though.....i don't really know what to do...i just want him to stop because i almost cried today even though I know he was joking....please tell me what you guys think i should do..any advice would help. thank you! :D
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I can't say for sure, because I don't know your ages, but it sounds to me like he LIKES you! I know, hard to imagine, but school-age boys are VERY immature. They don't know how to really talk to girls they like, so they do whatever they think will earn them some attention. He sees it bothers you, and as twisted as it may sound, he'll take ANY kind of attention from you, rather than none at all. Since teasing you gets a reaction from you, that's what he does. Like I said, I can't be sure, but I'm pretty sure I'm right. So, next time he starts bugging you like that, politely tell him that you don't like being made fun of, even if he's just kidding. Tell him if he doesn't have anything nice to say to you then don't say anything at all, and that you'll speak to him when he starts talking to you like a friend instead of a jerk. Then ignore him! Seriously, ignore him, like look right through him when he starts teasing you and don't give in. Eventually he will get the message and I'm willing to bet you'll start hearing a lot nicer things from him. This is a boy problem, not a YOU problem, so try your best not to take it personally. In a way, its kind of flattering. He's just so nervous around you he doesn't even know how to act! Good luck.
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