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My best friend gets 'em all.


Question Posted Sunday September 12 2010, 12:31 pm

I am 16 f, my best friend is 16, f, my other friend who is best friends with the boy, is 17 and f, and the boy is 17 and m. All of them are seniors, except me.

My friend and I were talking about this boy and low and behold an hour or so later, we saw him driving by right where we were standing. My friend is best friends with him so she chased him down the block and I followed. We met up with him at a corner when he was out of his car and we talked for a few minutes. She invited him back to my house later and he came over. When he came over we chilled for a few minutes, then went outside. It was strange, though, I was getting signals he was kind of into me, every time he made a joke, he glanced at me, when I talked, he looked straight into my eyes, I caught him looking at me a few times, he told my friend to text him (which I did and we talked for 45 minutes or so.) Yet, when he left my friend asked him which one, me or the other girl that was there (my best friend) and he said he found my best friend to be very cute. He also thought I was cute but I'm not his type, but he then fixed himself and said he actually thinks it's because I'm not as old as him. Then my friend asked if he would ever date me and he said sure, maybe. We made plans to hang out again with my other guy friends, this would be our third time hanging out.
We told him next time, my best friend might not be there and he was cool with it. But when he was talking to my friend, he had asked if my best friend (the one he likes) if she had gone home and talked about her for a few minutes. I'm so confused..

What's his deal? Why was he giving me more of the signals then he was my best friend, when he was more attracted to her?


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Nini234 answered Sunday September 12 2010, 7:04 pm:
Don't deicide so soon on how you thinks he likes more or not. Hang out with him again an ask him in person. Most guys prefer it that way than your friend asking for you,you seem more mature. Also this dosnt have to do with you question but from what you titled your question it can seem like you're jelous of your best friend. Try no to be, be happy for her. It may seem to you that she gets all the guys but that who you see things. It's not what really happens. Your jealousy towards her will harm you friendship and will only bring bad things. So try to be happy for your friend when she gets a guy and support her that what true friends do. Hope I didn't offend you or anything an I also hope things work out.

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