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He cared so much that I was mad.
Let me start this off by saying I am 16 and female and the other main person is a boy and he is 16. Alright, we were both on a bus coming back from a football game and on the way there, this girl was being the usual bitch she is and starving for guys attention by making fun of/putting this other boy down. This boy, that is very cute (the sixteen year old that I mentioned) let's call him Frank, was playing along and he was making fun of this boy as well, so later I told Frank that he was being rude and to be quite honest, I was a little upset with him. This was all before the bus ride home. At the game, I told him I was upset and he asked me numerous times with his cute puppy dog eyes why I was mad and I told him that I would tell him later. Now, skipping ahead to the bus ride home, everyone was having a good time, laughing and goofing off with friends. I turned around and realized Frank's bus buddy wasn't sitting with him, so then I turned around to the very back of the bus and saw Frank. I proceeded to ask him if he was okay and that I was still a little upset, just notifying him that things still are not okay. His reply: "if I had a gun right now, I wouldn't be alive" with the straightest, saddest looking face. I turned around, but I felt bad, so I walked to the back of the bus where he was sitting with his legs up and his head in his knees. I asked him what's wrong and the first thing he said was why are you mad at me? and I asked him you care that much, that this is what's upsetting you? and he replied "yea, I mean, I hate when people are mad at me" Then we talked for a while about him and what people think of him and how he doesn't like being labeled and why I was upset with him, he admitted he was stupid, he apologized, it was nice, I feel like we really had a nice heart to heart. We then pulled up to the school, went inside and he still looked sad so I talked to him and he said he was fine, I didn't believe him because he looked so depressed. But I told him I'd see how he is on Tuesday and he said fine. We were outside and I was talking to my best guy friend and Frank walked out so I told my friend to ask him what was wrong and Frank told my friend "she's mad at me" I ran up to him to give him a hug but he walked away. The next day my friend told me that he told her on facebook he was sorry, too.
My friend thinks he likes me because of how much he cared that I was mad. He apologized to her, but he talked to me for a while on the bus. We are even hanging out this coming weekend with a bunch of friends.
Do you think he likes me? Thanks!
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Can't tell from this if he likes you or not, but he is way, way, WAY over sensitive. It's not fun to be liked, or to be in a relationship, with a person who gets moopy and depressed each time you get a tiny bit, legitimately, upset with them. It might seem cute at first, but trust me, constantly reassuring that sort of person gets old – fast.
It is totally possible he likes you. It’s also possible that he is just disastrously insecure and looking for as much sympathy and reassurance as he could wrangle out of you.
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