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Im in love with a man thats 12 years older than me and married.
I have a situaton that i have been holding in for so long. I met this guy at work. It was really weird because there was this weird attraction that i felt the very first time i saw him. I did not know he was married or had kids. He would always stare at me and give me these deep intense looks. I loved it. I thought oh hes just really friendly but as time went on he made it known that he was into me. He didnt directly say it but it was obvious. So one night he gave me his number. it was at a very random time. I knew i would be putting myself in a bad situation but accepted anyway. Flirting is one thing but he took it this far. My attraction to him is unexplainable. So heres the hard part. He would text me and tell me how baeutiful i am and im every guys dream and just everything a girl would want to hear. It sounded so sincere. The guilt started to hit so i told him i cant talk to him anymore but soon apoligized and said i didnt mean that. He wont talk to me he wont respond to any of my text. Did i hurt his feelings or does he just not care. Im so confused. I just want to know how he feels but he wont respond to anything i say even when i think im saying something that will touch his heart and cant help but respond. By the way im 18 and hes 30.
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You're to big a risk. He wants a playmate his wife won't know about. You hesitated (as you should have) so he backed off.
Do not pursue this further. I know he is saying things you want to hear...any girl would want to hear it! But, he isn't ever going to leave his wife for you. He will just use you. You don't need that kind of hurt, heartache and guilt in your life. He is in all honest a lying cheat. Why get involved with someone who is a liar when you know it up front?
There are some good guys closer to your own age who will treat you as a special girl. Look for one of those. this guy has probably done all this before. Don't fall for it.
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