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My Crush
I posted this question publicly, but I like you answers so I'm also asking you separately :).
So....I feel like my crush makes silly excuses to talk to me. He asks me questions that I almost know for a fact that he already knows the answers to. It makes me think "duh, he likes me," but sometimes the signs aren't that clear. He's nice to me, as he is to everyone, but I don't typically find him staring at me every second. He's smiles and/or waves when we see eachother or make eye contact. One thing I have noticed is that if I see him from far away, it feels like he will suddenly turn or act a bit startled. Haha. But on some days there is zero interaction between us and it leaves me feeling like he doesn't like me. I'm a grade and a year older than him which leads me to think that he thinks that I'm unattainable. Could this be the reason that he hasn't made serious efforts to become closer?
All this said, I'm a pretty doubtful of my ability to interpret his behavior because in the past I have admitted to guys that I like them only to find that the feelings were only one-sided :/. Hence why I will probably not tell him how I feel until I graduate. I know it's cowardly of me, but I don't want to go through the hassle of awkwardness again.
Any suggestion/advice/or point of view is appreciated.
Thanks :).
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Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life?
Those who don't brave awkwardness get nowhere.
If you do nothing, you'll never date him. If you try, maybe you will.
Flirt with him. Tell him he looks cute, smile at him more, make some physical contact. See if he returns it. Go for broke and tell him what's going on, because based on the ambiguous info here I couldn't tell you if he's interested.
All I can tell you is that a lack of action means you'll wonder. I'd rather know, personally, and move on. Or take a chance and end up dating someone I like.
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