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what is he thinking??
20F.
Hey I love your advice, I'm really hoping you can tell me what you think this guy feels after reading the situation. (Will be long but I will return the favor, I am in need of an opinion)
So it all started when I met this guy Brad. I met him through a friend, and I guess when he first saw me he never thought he could get me. My friend told him I thought he was really cute and so he said have her text me! Well I end up texting him, and we talk a little and then he stops texting and never texted back the next morning. Turns out he ended up getting drunk and forgot to save my number, he regretted not saving it earlier.
Then he texts my friend, and I was starting to get jealous, because at this point I didn't know he forgot to save my number. He tells my friend to come to this party he's at, he knew she was with me. So we get there, and this is kind of the first time actually hanging out with him. He wanted to go in the hot tub and was like "who wants to go??" Nobody said anything so I said, i'll go with you. So it was just me and him in the hot tub and I'm in my bra and underwear because I didn't have a swimsuit but I didn't care because I'm comfortable with my body. We ended up hooking up in the hot tub ..we made out and he fingered me. Me and my friend stay the night there and leave early in the morning. We talked all night about everything, he made me feel so comfortable. He tells me he's only had sex with three girls, all of them were long term relationships. This is when I find out he forgot to save my number and said he was texting my friend so he could see me.
Well then I forgot to give him my number again that night. So he still didn't have it. Well then about a week later he texts my friend like I'm having a party ..come and bring my girl Linds (me). I was like awww. We couldn't go though.
Well then finally I have the guts to just text him about a week after him inviting us to his party. I say Brad it's Linds whats up. So we start talking and I say ..so when am I gonna see you again? he says, I don't know you tell me! I say tomorrow night, my parents are gone. He said, I just might have to. Well then I say I'll text you tomorrow.
So then the next night at about 9 I text him and he says he's at work and asks what I'm doing, I said I was at a birthday dinner for my friend. He never texted back, and I was going to ask if he was going to come see me too. Well then the night goes on and me and some friends start drinking a little..I end up getting pretty tipsy and end up texting Brad. This was the jist of our convo.
AT ABOUT 1 IN THE MORNING:
ME: Fuck me Bradley
HIM: I will
ME: Why didn't you come see me tonight
HIM: You said you were out at dinner
ME: Yeah but then you never texted back, come see me now
HIM: I can't its too late now
ME: I wanna seee youuu
HIM: I wanna see you too but I can't leave
ME: I want you
HIM: No you don't, you only want me when you're drunk
ME: What the hell Brad, no I always do, you're so hot
AFTER 3 HRS OF TALKING ..SO NOW ITS ALMOST 4 IN THE MORNING..
HIM: Fine whats your address I'll come see you
ME: (I tell him)
HIM: You better be serious about wanting to see me, I'm coming
ME: Ok just walk through the garage when you get here I'll be alone.
Well then he gets to my house and we end up going in my room making out and one thing leads to another and we had sex. I was a virgin ..until then. But I was ready, I don't regret what I did at all. He was so nice about it, I said I'm a little scared you know I'm a virgin and he said don't worry Linds I won't hurt you, trust me. Then the next morning he texts me saying, did I drop my wallet in your room? Turns out it was under my bed so I said are you gonna come get it? And so then he came and got it, I ran it out to him and talked for a bit and he left.
I don't talk to him for about 2 days then I was at a party and these dumb boys end up taking my phone while I was drinking and saying something to him like "I'm horny, lets have sex it felt sooo goood last time." I find out they did this the next morning so I text him saying sorry the boys took my phone last night, I'm sorry for whatever they said. He said haha what boys? And I tell him and he says haha alright it's cool.
Well then I was like well have fun at school (he's gonna be a freshman in college), let me know when your home one time so I can see you since I won't have a hot boy like you to have fun with anymore! He said will do, thanks!
I just don't know what to do. I don't want to seem clingy. I just want him so bad sexually now that we had sex though ..and I can't because he's at college now. He's only 45 min away but I don't want to invite myself out there, we're not like together or anything. I just want to hook up with him again haha and so I feel like I should just wait for him to text me otherwise I feel like i'd be bugging him! I know he will be meeting other girls, and thats fine as long as I still get to hook up with him when he comes home!
What do you think? Do you think he'll text me next time he comes home? What if he doesn't do I text him then? I can't stop thinking about how good the sex was with him and how I want it so bad now. I don't know ..what are your opinions on the whole situation?
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To be honest...I think that he had sex with you as a one time thing. Now that he's off to college he probably won't even remember the one girl he met and had sex with before he left. If you really want him to remember you, you have to keep yourself in contact with him, regardless of who's talking to who first. It doesn't have to be everyday, but if you want him to tell you when he's home for some time then talk to him! I guarantee you're not bugging him. Guys like it better when you talk to them first anyways, and if he doesn't want to talk he won't answer. Most guys at his age just prefer hookups instead of relationships in the first place, so you might want to make it clear that's all you want too. Thank you for your question, I hope this helped. Good Luck!
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