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Technically Speaking: How Do You Kiss a Boy?
Okay I will sound so stupid.. but how do you kiss a boy. Like first kiss basis.
Do you open your mouth at all.. or not. That's the main thing I want to know.
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Let the boy "lead" if you're unsure and you are pretty sure he has had real-life practice.
Otherwise, simply press your lips to his. You can slightly open your mouth just a little to help the kiss be better but it is absolutely not necessary for a good kiss.
Start with sealed lips against his. If he opens his mouth then slowly open yours up, too, so that you two can "french" kiss. Make sure you don't have a mouth full of saliva though so you don't start drooling down his face.
Once you get the hang of following his lead then you can start initiating the kiss yourself. It will come naturally and you'll figure out "when" you should open your mouth for a good french kiss or make-out session.
So, basically, start with a closed mouth and slowly open it a little as the kissing continues. You'll figure it out with a little one-on-one practice.
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The funny thing about kissing is that everyone does it differently.
I dated a boy for years who, the first time we kissed, we knocked teeth. But since we both had a bit of experience with kissing, we knew not to worry about that kind of weirdness and just kept going without giving it a thought.
Everybody is different, so every time you kiss someone new it is a bit like learning to kiss all over again and that stuff happens.
You don't need to open your mouth, and if you are nervous it's easiest not to at first. If he opens his, you can just part your lips a bit to fit. The best thing you can do is relax and know it wont be completely perfect the first time. The goal is to kiss someone you can kiss again and get better at it.
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