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alcohol: I think I am an alcoholic
look im 17/ f and i deffinitly think im an alcoholic. everytime i drink i get wasted, and i cant stop drinking.. like i just cant. what the hell do i do now not to forget all my embarrasing things i do drunk..
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The definition of an alcoholic is someone who cannot control their drinking. This is just one of the many reasons society asks that you wait until you are 21 to start drinking. Alcoholism is a disease just like any other disease; the difference is this one has no cure but can be controlled.
You have taken the first step in that you recognize you have a problem. My brother in-law who has been a recovering alcoholic for over 20 years tells me that this is the most important step. The next step is to get help. The best help is through Alcoholics’ Anonymous. They are the best people to help you with your question. They will help you with who if anyone you need to make amends to. They will help you stop drinking and most importantly they are anonymous and they will not condemn you. Check out their website: [Link](Mouse over link to see full location).
On their website you will find out about their 12 step program which is the cornerstone of their recovery program. They have a locator system you can use to find a meeting at a time and place near you. Only first names are used. Even if you meet someone you know they will never tell your parents. That is for you to do when you are ready and they will, through the 12 step program prepare you for telling your parents that you are an alcoholic. This is a lifelong program for alcoholism is a lifelong problem. Once you have control of the problem you will be able to lead a normal life, as long as you stay away from alcohol.
Speaking for myself and I’m old enough to be your grandfather; the only thing you did wrong and it is a legal wrong at that was to drink alcohol before you were legally old to do so. I believe the problem you are having with alcohol would have most likely manifested itself at some point later in your life. The fact that it has manifested itself at your young age allows you to gain control over it before the alcohol harms your body, your mind and your reputation.
Please contact Alcoholics Anonymous and let them help you.
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You're probably not an alcoholic, you just can't control your alcohol. Do you usually drink when you're with friends and at parties?
If you think you might have a problem and don't know how to deal with it, talk to someone. It might be difficult and embarrassing, but you need to get help.
If you can't talk to your parents, turn to an adult. Friends can offer support, but sometimes they might not know how to help you personally.
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