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How do i stop being so nice to people?
how do i stop wearing my heart on my sleeve? all my life even when i was little i would try and still befriends with some one that has done me wrong, i always wanted to believe that people just make mistakes and not believe that the ones i care about would be this hate full towards me.
how do i teach my self not to care?
but as far as relationships go. and friend ships how do i stop being a push over? how can i toughen up and stop letting people walk all over me? my dad my mom and sister always tell me im to nice and people treat me the way they do because i allow it. and that nice people finish last, but how can i stop being who i am? my grandma always tough me to treat people the way i want to be treated but that doesn't work. I don't want to start any fights with people so I don't argue and the are usually bigger than me. I'm nice to them and they turn around and talk about me and call me zit face. I even cried when a group of girls started yelling at me calling me pimple face and everyone started laughing. It ruined my whole day. I already have self esteem issues cuz of my acne. People at school always beg and take my school supplies and they beg for my food. These girls in almost all of my classes talk about me for no reason, and I havent done anything wrong. I'm nice to everybody. Every single day there's a kid in all of my classes asking me for paper and pencils. Some people even take things out of my pocket, when they don't ask, and I don't say anything. If I dont give them what they want they will be mean and talk about me, it bothers me cuz im sensitive and might cry later on. I don't want people to hate me or try to fight me if I say no or tell an adult. Most of the kids in my first 2 classes cheat off of me, I hate my first 2 classes and I think i'm starting to hate school.
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You just have to think that people are pusovers and now days people that see a weakness in someone will take advantage of it and being nice is a weakness .and don't be afraid off what people think do or say because they are nothing .trust me call their bluff .I had the same problem at work where people would steal from me like my lunch my tea and anything eles I brought wih me they thought I was so nice I wouldn mind but in reality yes I did .so if I didn't bring anything the next day they would say you didn't bring no tea or lunch with you today I just replyed if you want something bring your own I don't owe you anything and of course they wouldn't talk to me the rest of the day .so what I'm saying is you know who your friends are .what I'm saying is put your foot down and stand your ground you do this one time it will become a. Habit don't give in too people because they will take advantage of you well I hope this gives you some courage to move on with your life .
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