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Guilty, wrong feelings.
I am a 22 year old female and I have been having "bad feelings" for as long as I remeber. I feel guilty and like I'm doing something wrong and shameful. They usually come on while my nipples are "played" with or after having sex with my husband and it is worse during the day. These bad feelings also can be brought on just by dressing up to make myself feel pretty. I do not have them all the time, but it still makes it hard to be intimate with my husband or dress up to go out. What could be wrong?
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A lot of things could be wrong.
Most likely it stems from something in you childhood or young adulthood.
Do we know? Definitely not.
Do you know? Maybe. Maybe not.
See a therapist. Seriously. They can help you work through these feelings and figure out why they start in the first place. You might be able to uncover your deepest, darkest secrets you don't even know you have.
See out a good therapist and tell them what is going on. Don't resort to doping yourself on medication though. It is important that you figure out what has gone wrong in your mind.
These acts should not make you feel shameful, especially since you are a married woman and this is, basically, a part of marriage (you know, having sex, dressing up for your spouse, etc.).
It could be something lurking very deep within your childhood that you might not recall just yet. It could be something you feel didn't make a large impact on you--but it turns it out is anyway. It could be how you were raised, if something happened to you as a child, or, well, anything really.
It's all in your mind. See someone that can help you figure out the problem so you can begin to heal and change to something more manageable.
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