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sugar daddy?
So this sounds totally shallow which is bad but I'm kinda desperate. I'm on my own for money now that I'm an adult and a minimum wage job part time just isnt cutting it with college and everything. I'm not a bad looking girl and I was wondering how I would go about finding a boyfriend(ish?) person to take care of me a bit...
i'm almost embarrassed to ask about this haha... has anyone had any experience with this sort of thing? please share...
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It's not safe.
Sugar Daddies aren't boyfriends. They are men who are paying you for sex (or maybe just companionship, but almost always some sort of sex).
You are talking about becoming a sex worker.
You can pretend it's not sex work, and call it other things, but it carries almost all of the exact same risks as being an escort or high end prositute.
Sex work is not a safe thing to do in most places. Some people do get lucky, and meet kind, considerate men who want no strings attached fooling around. Most meet men who are emotionally abusive and take inappropraite sexual risks.
Please, please, stay off Craigslist. If you are absolutely going to do this, make sure at least one, if not more of your girlfriends are aware of it and know where you are going when you met these men. Check in with them over phone calls and give them the address of where you are at for at least the first few dates. There are a lots of 'dating sites' out there for women and men looking to met eachother for this kind of relationship, a quick google will bring em up for you.
But really, don't do this unless you are honest and comfortable with the fact that even if you do it only once, with one guy, it IS sex work and comes with all the same risks as sex work.
Above all, be safe.
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