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how to tell a guy you're on your period..
20F.
So i'm not gonna get into detail or anything but last weekend I hooked up with this guy, whatever. Well now this week I have my period and we're all going to be partying tomorrow so before he tries fingering me or going down my pants how do I warn him that I have my period?? And will he be grossed out and not want to touch me or anything??
Anything will help :)
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Hi... I am older and wiser than you, ; ) so I can say this lol... if you have had sex with a guy but you are uncomfortable letting him know that you are on your period, that can mean only one thing...you had sex with him WAY too soon!
Sex is the most intimate thing you can do with another person. If you aren't comfortable talking with them about something as simple and normal as being on your period, I think you've rushed the sex.
And if he's grossed out by something that every woman on the planet deals with on a monthly basis, he's not old enough or mature enough to be participating anyway.
Maybe this would be a good opportunity to slow things down and consider taking more time with a guy before giving yourself to him. That isn't a judgement...just something I think you should take into consideration.
Good luck whatever you decide!
Jada
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look g, i got the blood a'flowin' down below, kna' mean? yee. so just keep your limbs to your tims and don't try to go all moses on that shit, it won't work. believe me, i tried dawg.
Just let him play with your boobs as a consolation prize.
My lady friend says:
"Give him something in return."
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That happened to me to! Something that guys like is honest and bravery...what i did is i just out right told him...
His hands started going down my pants and i just laughed and said not tongith i have a tampon in, he laughed and we just continued doing what we did.
So just tell him in the moment, and not before. That way he can't wimp out of hooking up in general all because you got your period.
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