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How do you feel about female moshers? Males, what do you think when a female is in the pit?
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I knew some guys who moshed every time they went to a concert (and boy did they go often). I actually asked them if they ever moshed with women before and how they felt about it. They, mostly, all agreed that they were afraid to hurt the woman so they tended to avoid making contact with her but weren't opposed to bumping around if she got close enough. They had no interest in "copping a feel" in the mosh pits but really just didn't want to injure a woman. They were more focused on NOT hurting the girl when a girl was around.
They still moshed with them though and had fun. One of them said, "Well, if they want to do it then fine. I'm not going to go purposely mosh on her but if she gets close enough or whatever then she's fair game. She does choose to be there, after all. She knows what's going on and that she can get hurt."
I asked if they thought these girls were extra-hot, sexy, or attractive. They all kind of beat around the bush to say that they have never seen an attractive girl in a mosh pit in all the times they had gone. They followed up by saying that they all typically looked like ugly dykes (whether they were lesbians or straight) or had been using drugs hard before so they weren't very pretty at all.
"Would you date a girl who moshed at concerts?"
"It would be kinda cool but at the same time...no. Just no. I wouldn't want her to mosh."
These were 11 guys between the ages of 15 - 20
So, basically, it made these particular guys uneasy but they dealt with it just fine. ]
My guess is that they think they can cop a free feel-----and God knows, THEY DO!
It's just a guess, though. What do YOU think?
xx Rhona ]
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