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Want to return the pleasure ..but doesn't know how..
20 -female.
So i love being pleasured, but then I feel bad when I can't/don't return the favor to the guy because i'm embarassed i've never given a handjob or a blowjob. I mean i'd be up for it but I have no idea what I'd be doing. I don't have a boyfriend, don't preach ..but how do I come about saying I've never touched a penis before and don't know what i'm doing without sounding like an idiot??
If you're going to say..only do this with someone you're comfortable with ..don't even bother. I'm comfortable with some guys pleasuring me..and i'd be willing to do the same back to them I just have never done it because I don't know how, and feel like I should at 20yrs old. And everyone says ..google it ..but honestly looking at a screen does not help me at all or make me more confident. I'd love to experiment with a guy though:)
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I'm going to try and be as decent as possible, so Advicenators doesn't ban me lol!
You said it yourself, experiment!! Don't let your 'innocence' in certain areas discourage you, use them to your advantage. Many guys love knowing that they're the ones to teach you how to do something. You can always roleplay, he can be the teacher, you're the student. If you happen to be close to the person you're doing things with, you can let him know in a way that won't make you 'sound like an idiot'. Do the foreplay, and just tell him you want to (insert action here) and you want him to teach you. You won't sound stupid if you're turning him on lol.
Also, reading and watching videos online are a big advantage! You say it doesn't help you at all or make you any more confident, but it will if you remember to do it when you're with a guy and drive him crazy. Don't shy away from these resources on the internet, because they truly are your best friend... Good luck!
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