Hello. I have been in a few relationships but I feel as if they were less than adequate. I find myself getting either annoyed or bored of the guy after a while. Half of this is because I didnt really care for them too much to begin with.
I want someone who is willing to talk and share about... well, anything. I also like it when I get the chance to argue with a guy I like. Not violently, more friendly than anything. I just find it to be a turn on when he can keep up with me and not falter. I know that its weird... I just dislike it when I meet guys who arent opinionated.
Well, the thing is that Ive met someone that I really like, which is pretty rare for me. He is extremely interesting and can carry a conversation much better than most people I know. Also, he is great at holding his ground and doesnt give me the chance to walk all over him. I love his sense of humor and I admit that this is partially because I know I shouldnt ^-^ He is very cheesy with his jokes and points out puns more than any teenager should. He also has this weird quirks in which he insists on showing me the iromy in absolutely everything.
I want to ask him out, but Ive been told that that is not what a girl does. I dont know if I should try to hint to him or if I should come out and ask him how he feels. I would much appreciate your advice.
Thanks so much
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? TheLonelySoul answered Monday August 2 2010, 1:07 pm: If I were you, I would ask him out when I'm ready. But do not wait too long or you may lose an opportunity with a rare person. It does not matter if people say it's not what girls do. What really matters is that you can be with someone you like. Who cares what they say, as long as YOU ARE HAPPY and enjoy being with this person. He is probably either waiting for you to act now or not sure if he should ask you out. I say jump on this opportunity now. If a girl asked me out I would be very very happy. For some guys like me, we just can't ask the girl out. I would feel more comfortable with the girl asking me out.(This possibly can be his case)Think of your options and think of the outcomes, which ever seems right to you....Good Luck....: ) I would ask him out... [ TheLonelySoul's advice column | Ask TheLonelySoul A Question ]
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