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Why do people feel the need to touch me?
Weird I know. It's not like I mind the touching, it makes me glad people feel comfortable around me. I'm just curious as to why people touch me.(not badly, but just light skinship) Okay, examples: 1) I was in art class drawing, and minding my own business. All of a sudden this guy sitting beside me just abruptly grabs my hand. I look up at him, surprised that he touched me (for no real reason I may add), and even HE looked
surprised that he touched me, he pulled away and said "Uhhh". 2) I'm sitting in class again, minding my own business and this other guy SITS on me and then says "Can I sit on your lap?" I
shoved him off and told him no and he quickly leaves. 3) this gay guy who I sit with at lunch was complaining about his day (he's bitter, cinical and normally doesn't touch me at all) and
he just grabs my hand and lays his head on my shoulder, I gave him a look like: "Um, what are you doing?" and he sits up and says "why did I do that?" Those are just SOME of the things, so
why do people (boys and girls) like to touch me and why do they act so surprised when they do?
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i agree with the first answer,
i ask myself this too. this sort of happens to me. however it because i dont feel comfortable with certainpeple touching me. and its bad i know. maybe youjust dont like some people touching you.
maybe its as you said. people feel comfortable around you :)
maybe pull them up on it if it annoys you okay =)
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To tell you the truth I don't think anyone can answer this one. But you might be one of those people who just seems friendly in the touching way. If you don't like it, just be aware of your surroundings. haha
Lillian
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