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rough fingering
18f.
Last night things got pretty crazy at this party and me and this guy started hooking up. it all started when we were making out in the hot tub, then we went inside and he started fingering me. i'm still a virgin -he knew that. nobody has ever fingered me ..they've been down there but haven't actually done it. well it hurt at first and i didn't know if it was suppose to because i was so tight down there, or if it was because he was being too rough? i don't even know how many fingers he used to be honest. well after a little bit ..i was like you have to be gentle with me okaay?? and he was then because it was still hurting after a while. is this normal for the first time being fingered? now today, i'm a little sore down there, i'm guessing this is normal? we didn't have sex, all he did was finger me but i'm just asking if all this is normal and maybe some helpful tips for next time??
thanks :)
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Any insertation into your vagina will hurt if you are not sufficently lubricated. That happens normally in the process of sexual arousal for women. Which means that you were not. Which makes me wonder why you were allowing "this guy" such intimate contact with you.
Trust me, he is not going to keep your encounter between the two of you. And, if he was also touching his penis and then fingering you, you are at risk for any STDs hemight have, or pregnancy. I encourage you to rethink your choices.
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this pain can happen to anyone. and from your description its hard to tel whose fault it was
if it hurt pretty much straight away the likeley hood is he had too many finger in for your tightness
however if it bagqn to hurt after a while it may because he was going to rough.
however it could be a mixture of both
my boyfriends fingers me and sometime this happens to me. this is nothing to worry about.
as you tgo through sexual partners you will begin to learn what is too rough for you and whatnot. the key is communication. =)
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