I'm a female and senior in high school. I met a guy last year august. i didnt like him like that back then and he was too pushy and it was just annoying me so I was rude to him and ignored all his txts calls and messages and cmmnts and stuff hoping he would leave me alone. I was a complete biyoch to him. but i saw him again at an event on memorial weekend. and i fell in love with him right away. he gave me a second chance and we were happier than ever. but the problem is he lives 5 hours away. so we're tryin to make it work.but it feels like i am wayyyy more into the relationship than him and he takes everything wayyy too lightly and doesnt seem to care about my feelings or how i feel, ever. I don't know if I'm overreacting or if I'm taking things way too seriously. What should I do? You're a guy do you think he doesn't care or is he just trying not to look desperate.
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? spikeflowers answered Monday July 26 2010, 4:12 pm: You are going through a tough sittuation. I have not been in a long distance relationship before, so I will try my best. All guys are diffrent in many ways. But if he was like me. He would be trying to be storng for you. He may not want you to know that it is hurting alot on the inside. He may miss you alot. Try having a seriouse conversation with him. Try to figure some things out. Tell him what is bothering you, or just simply show him how much you miss him. If he didnt care at all, he would not be with you right now. Just look at the positive things for right now. [ spikeflowers's advice column | Ask spikeflowers A Question ]
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