Well I love my girlfriend a lot....She loves me too She's been having doubts...And she doesn't know what do...I told her if she doesn't leave me I will just leave she said NO! cause she loves me and it will hurt....but she has a feeling in her stomach that we wont work out...So she has told me to give her time...but my biggest fear is that..She may leave me...cause I really love her a lot..but something inside of me thinks that since she's having doubts she will never love me the way she did again...Maybe I'm just being insecure and I should just give her time...I know I could trust her And I know she loves me and she DOES want to be with me...It's just the doubts...So i don't know what to do...Should I just let her go 4 get about her to make the pain fade quickly...or should i give her time hoping she will comeback to me...but still knowing there is a chance she may not want me...anymore...:/
[ Answer this question ] Want to answer more questions in the Relationships category? Maybe give some free advice about: Love Life? spikeflowers answered Monday July 26 2010, 3:30 pm: well here is the thing. You love her and she loves you. You never want to leave someone when the time isnt right and you dont want to, because then it will hurt alot worse than just waiting on a time when it is time for you two to leave eachother on good terms. You do not want to feel insecure and you dont want to doubt anything. You especialy do not want her to know any of that. Do not show that kind of stuff. Show her that you love her and show her that you will be there for her no matter what. If she says that she loves you then she will stay. Dont push her away by giving her these ultimatums. be confidant and keep your head up high. Dont look at things that are in the dark. look at them in the light. Just always remember this... she is always with you. She never left. So how are you going to lose something that never went away? [ spikeflowers's advice column | Ask spikeflowers A Question ]
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