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How Serious is Serious Enough?
Hello donnelly2000. I have a question. I was dating this guy for about a year when we broke up. He broke up with me, telling me that we just have different desires for the future. I was understanding about it. It really hurt though I didn't let him see how much. Well, my friends are trying to force me into another relationship. They keep on introducing me to new people. It's nice to mingle a little, but the thing is i dont know if i want to find some one just yet.
Where should u draw the boundaries on what i do?
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Hi,
Sometimes things just don't work out. Obviously your last boyfriend wasn't a great match for you but you will find another guy who's even better than him. A year long relationship is a good amount of time so it's only natural that you are hurt by the breakup. Your friends are probably trying to set you up in another relationship but this is only because they care about you and don't want to see you sad. This is a quick fix though, and going into a "rebound" relationship is a bad idea it's unfair to you and the other person. You need to allow some time before you date someone again, and don't force it. Be patient and wait at least a couple months!
It's important to keep an active social life, and not dwell to much on the past but you need to allow yourself time before you go into another relationship. If a great guy comes along and stuff happens then great, but you shouldn't force it. Even though it may seem like you will never get over your last boyfriend you will. At times like this it's ok to feel bad, but always keep in mind that it's only temporary and another guy WILL come along.
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