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Communication sucks.
My boyfriend and I have been dating for almost a year. He just graduated from college and I'm going into my sophomore year of college. Our relationship is long distance and we see each other whenever we possibly can but lately something isn't right. We use to have great conversation and a great relationship but suddenly I feel like everything's gone downhill. We fight constantly, about pointless and meaningless things. We're miserable when we're apart and I think that is taking it's effect on the both of us. I just can't seem to get through to him anymore. Whenever I try to fix and salvage our relationship, he seems to just leave the fixing up to me and never puts in any effort or input even when I beg him too. I just don't know what else to do. It scares me how things can go to being so great to being so terrible. Please help!
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I think you need to make him realize that you and him need to try and fix your relationship together you doing it alone isn't going to get you anywhere you won't make any progress if you do it alone by yourself it has to be a team effort both of you have to try in order to make things change there's room for improvement it's not like all hope is lost which is a good thing tell him in order to make things change he has to be willing to he can't sit back and watch you save the relationship by yourself he's got to put forth effort seeing as he's your boyfriend and not some stranger he's got to be in control of the realationship and take charge not allow it to go downhill also mention to him that it's scaring you that things went from being great to terrible hopefully that will make him realize what he's doing wrong and the mistakes he's been making and he'll change once he see's how it's been affecting you(:
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