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I always attract older guys
Im female. 16. I always attract older guys because i look and act mature (as i have been told over and over again.) Lately there has been this guy, hes 26...thats right. 10 years older than me. i have been talking to him. only as friends, but i like to flirt. I am a very guarded person, im not one of those naiive girls that gets tricked easilt. i dont believe sweet talk in guys alot. this guy thought i was older is the only reason he takled to me. then after i talked to him and told him my age, he was very suprised but he still continued to txt me. i know it sounds wrong and weird, but he is kind. i like him as a friend and maybe a little bit more. im not out to get tricked though...im a pretty good judge of character. so my question is, i know i have to be myself, i always am...but what attracts him to me? or i guess my question is really how to keep him interested. if you were an older guy or girl and started talking to a person 10 years younger, then do you think it would last? or go anywhere? or just out for sex? (i really dont think he is though. as i said we are just friends right now.)
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That's a toughie.
Older men date younger women for many reasons.
The sexual attraction, the risk, the passion, and the excitment. (Not to mention our healthy bodies and soft skin). Men also go for a younger gal becasue it makes them feel young again.
How to keep him interested? Just be yourself and don't try to act his age. He likes you for your youth.
I know many people who are in relationships with age gaps. It's hard and it has it's ups and downs like any other relationship. If you really want it to work out, then it will work out.
As for the sex, wait until your 18 so it will at least be legal.
Have fun, follow your heart, and be careful! :)
Blessings!
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