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we never hangout but we like eachother, how do we ask?
after i became single my friend and i liked eachother for a while but never hungout outside of our sport. i quit in june though. im 16/f hes 18/m and moving away to college this coming year. my friend creeped on him and is the result of us not texting much anymore, but i really wana give it one date to see. he really liked me for a while i just didnt want a bf atm. would that be for better or for worse? what could we do? how can i ask? he holds two jobs as it is so its hard to hangout and the last two tries fell through. i really like him im nervous, im used to ppl making the first move on me but hes shy. help?
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Hey,
Just because your friend creeped on him doesn't really give him a reason to not text you as much. But, it could of been that he was busy. Saying no to him that one time would not change how he feels about you, if you tell him you still have feelings for him and would like to try again.
You could text him every now and then, tell him you are sorry you didn't say yes the first time, but you weren't ready. Say you are thinking about him and you were wondering if he was availible, for you want to spend some time with him. If he says yes, let him chose the day. You said he is busy with his job and now with college so, if he picks the day he will be more likely to come. Once he says yes, you could: go eat somewhere, grab a drink (if he doesn't have a lot of time), go to a movie, go to the beach, go swimming, play your sport together (if its doable for two people), or have a picnic.
It is alright to be nervous about a guy that you like. If he is shy, help him not to be. Flirt with him when you are in person, make him laugh, and help him open up by asking about his life. If you already know he likes you, it will be that much easier to have him love you <3
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